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He says he would fly back once a month, but I fear we will quickly become estranged and he will stray again. Big geographic separations put strains on almost all relationships, as any Armed Forces wife will tell you.The best relationships allow space for each partner to be the best versions of themselves.While many spouses would not contemplate letting their other half work abroad on their own for a lengthy period of time, let alone after a previous infidelity, it seems to me someone has to give in gracefully in this scenario.So the question is: how unreasonable is it for your husband to go? If he lives for his work and draws his identity, security and status from it, then it would be a body blow to turn down a prestigious position and could lead to resentment.Having said that, you are within your rights to ask him to turn down the post, considering the breach of trust that happened when he last worked away.